Why Women Should Get Into Guns – And How to Start

Why Women Should Get Into Guns – And How to Start
By Michelle, Apollo Defense Systems

Taking Control: Why Every Woman Should Consider Firearm Ownership

The world is unpredictable. As women, we are often told to be careful, to watch our surroundings, and to avoid dangerous situations. We take self-defense classes, carry pepper spray, and share our locations with friends before heading out. But what if we could do more? What if we could take our safety into our own hands in a way that is truly empowering?

Firearms have long been viewed as a man's world, a domain filled with military gear, tactical talk, and intimidating firepower. But the reality is, firearms offer something priceless to women—security, confidence, and independence.

Imagine this: you’re walking to your car late at night. The parking lot is dimly lit, and a shadow moves just out of your line of sight. Your heart starts to race, and you grip your keys between your fingers like a makeshift weapon, just like your mom told you to. But what if you had something more effective? Something that could truly protect you?

Firearms level the playing field. They allow a woman—regardless of size, strength, or fitness level—to stand confidently in the face of danger. Whether for personal protection, home defense, or simply a new skill set, getting into firearms is not about fear—it’s about preparation, confidence, and taking control of your own life.

So, where do you start? What should you look for? And how do you go from hesitant to confident? Let’s break it down.

Step One: Overcoming Fear and Breaking Stereotypes

Many women grow up in environments where guns are either completely absent or framed as something dangerous. The truth is, fear often stems from the unknown. Guns are not inherently dangerous; improper use is. The key to overcoming fear is education.

The first step to firearm confidence is simply learning about them. Understand how they work, what different types exist, and how they are used safely. Take a beginner’s course, talk to experienced women who carry, and see for yourself that guns are nothing more than tools—ones that can be life-saving in the right hands.

Breaking stereotypes is another major challenge. Women often face condescending attitudes when they first enter the firearms world. Some may assume women can’t handle guns or aren’t serious about self-defense. However, the number of female gun owners has skyrocketed in recent years, proving that the firearm industry is no longer just a "man's world." Many training facilities now offer women-only classes to create a comfortable and encouraging learning environment.

Step Two: Choosing the Right Firearm for You

One of the most common mistakes women make when choosing their first gun is assuming that smaller is better. While tiny, lightweight guns might seem ideal for concealed carry, they often have more recoil and are harder to control. Instead, consider these options:

For Concealed Carry:

• Sig Sauer P365 – Compact yet high-capacity, this is a favorite for many women.

• Glock 43X – A fantastic blend of size, reliability, and ease of use.

• Smith & Wesson Shield Plus – Thin, light, and designed for everyday carry.

For Home Defense:

• Glock 19 – A bit larger but incredibly reliable and easy to shoot.

• Smith & Wesson M&P9 2.0 – A great balance of size, capacity, and handling.

• Walther PDP – Excellent ergonomics and a smooth trigger.

For Beginners:

• Ruger SR22 – Low recoil and great for learning.

• Glock 44 (.22LR) – Similar to larger Glocks but in a softer shooting caliber.

• Taurus TX22 – Affordable, reliable, and easy to shoot.

The best way to find the right gun? Go to a range and try different models. Renting firearms before buying is the best way to see what feels comfortable in your hands. Consider working with an instructor who can help you understand grip, trigger control, and aiming techniques to find the best fit.

Step Three: Getting Proper Training

Owning a gun is one thing; knowing how to use it effectively is another. Confidence comes from training, practice, and education.

Where to Start:

• Basic Firearm Safety Course – Covers gun handling, storage, and safe operation.

• Self-Defense and Situational Awareness Classes – Learn how to recognize threats and respond appropriately.

• Concealed Carry Permit Training – If you plan to carry, this is a must.

• Women’s-Only Training Groups – Learn in a comfortable, supportive environment with other women.

Why Training Matters:

• Muscle Memory: In high-stress situations, you’ll revert to your training.

• Confidence: Knowing how to use your firearm removes hesitation.

• Legality: Understand self-defense laws to protect yourself legally and physically.

Regular training is essential. Shooting at the range once a year isn’t enough—you should practice drawing from a holster, shooting from different positions, and engaging in real-world defensive scenarios. Advanced courses can teach techniques like clearing malfunctions, shooting in low-light conditions, and defensive movement strategies.

The Emotional and Psychological Benefits of Carrying a Firearm

For many women, carrying a firearm isn’t just about self-defense—it’s about mindset.

Real Stories from Women Who Carry:

• Jessica’s Story: “I used to feel anxious walking to my car at night. Since getting my concealed carry license, I don’t feel powerless anymore. I walk with confidence knowing I have a way to defend myself.”

• Amanda’s Story: “I’m a mother. My kids’ safety is my number one priority. Owning a firearm and being trained to use it gives me the reassurance that I can protect them if I ever have to.”

• Rachel’s Story: “At first, I was intimidated by the gun world. But after taking a few women’s-only classes, I realized that shooting is empowering. Now I train regularly and encourage other women to do the same.”

Firearms ownership is not just about physical protection—it’s about mental strength, independence, and reclaiming personal power.

Final Thoughts: Owning Your Power

Carrying a firearm isn’t about living in fear. It’s about living without fear. It’s about taking control of your own safety rather than relying on someone else to do it for you.

Whether you’re completely new to firearms or just looking for a reason to start, now is the time.

1. Educate yourself – Learn about guns, safety, and self-defense laws.

2. Find the right firearm – One that fits your hand, your needs, and your comfort level.

3. Get proper training – Confidence comes from skill, and skill comes from practice.

4. Own your safety – You are your own first line of defense.

At Apollo Defense Systems, we believe in empowering women through education and self-reliance. If you’re ready to take that step, we’re here to help. From training to gear recommendations, we’ve got you covered.

It’s time to take your power back.

You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to be confident.

And you deserve to be prepared.